[deleted user] I would like to see in the future and we already can practise right now Restorative Justice - meaning readjusting humans activities in a life serving way with out hating ore punishing any one. Just because we know how to.
Sunday 20 March 2016, 21:27:36
Brian M I love the concept of restorative justice. The only way we keep our karmic scales positive after the massive rebalance is by extending the olive branch and breaking the cycle.
Tuesday 22 March 2016, 01:48:05
[deleted user] That is a path serving life, clause your eyes and ask yourself: what I do love? ...thank you... now use your mind how to get there. and do not give up until you achieve it. Pay attention that direction what to do? Choice made based on ones needs, what really nourishing, improving, serving life. Let the beat of your heart give a rhythm of your deeds and mind finger out how to get there where you need.
Tuesday 22 March 2016, 11:45:14
[deleted user] We are enslaved by accepted someone’s imagination and that cognitive agreement Is dangerous, because mind has no direct recognition what supports life that is how we harm ourself for fun. When we practise to be fully aware what we feel because we need ... that way we will never do harm to ourself ore each other.
Tuesday 22 March 2016, 11:49:20
[deleted user] I fully agree with you, sylvester, that when we find mastery from within, coming from an affinity with ourselves in our own heart, no need will be present to do harm to love and life.
Wednesday 23 March 2016, 08:41:22
[deleted user] In order to find "mastery" with in (?) There is nothing to find there, but feel. Just do not mix feelings caused by stimulus and needs with emotions causing you feel certain way , because of your thinking. What ever comes from your brain is nonsense , brain fart or opinion suggested by media, even if it is your own fingering out ideas causing feelings you have to understand that it has nothing to do with observe able reality. Put your heart in the front it will never lie to you. for example: I feel lonely because I need connection with other humans. I need compassion and consideration about what is life in us, in each other. I requesting people talk with me sincere pointing senses what is life in them and see me as a living being with my feelings and needs. Would you please pass the salt over the table? But do that only if you could do that with a joy observing how your deed enrich my life and we could celebrate that together.
Ore: I blaming , judging, criticising for my own unfulfilled needs and instead of friendly request I sneaky demand trying to imply guilt on other person and try to convince that there is some things that you "have to" do if you like me. It is only fair, You have to realize that you should, because right wrong and other imaginary blah blah. So you have to realise that if you would like to be invited for diner next time you should be more friendly and just because you sit so close to that salt in does not men that you own it ....
I hope you can sense difference when sounds comes from ones heart truth observation of life feelings needs and from ones head Judgements, rational conclusions, blames claims stories.
Wednesday 23 March 2016, 11:04:26
[deleted user] sylvester, you need to read my message again, for there's no difference in views or feelings, in my message, compared to the content of yours. You seem to need other people in your life, so that you can reflect on yourself, who you really are, but don't wait for them to make you feel loved, for that's something you need to begin with from within first, before you can receive love from others, in an authentic way. When you need a friend, be one to another, that's usually how it works out best, my friend ;)
Wednesday 23 March 2016, 13:38:37
[deleted user] Marian Baghor I need few people to practice NVC together. Please never guess when you can ask what me ore others need. We all are experts about ourself not about other people. ;O)
Wednesday 23 March 2016, 16:20:02
Brian M Imagine what body language and eye contact could clarify in this context. We're all on the same wavelength. Sometimes meaning gets lost in too many words.
Wednesday 23 March 2016, 16:54:12
[deleted user] About violence “There are some New Age people against that procedure, saying violence only provokes more violence.” Yes indeed: violence only provokes more violence - take your time to think about it.
We use force, just not punitive force, but protecting life force. I Guess you need example of this? In situation when kid run after the ball to a busy street. We grab a kid carry him in to his rum saying : - I told you million times do not play near that street? Now you will sit here.... Kid will think that something is wrong with him and learn important lesson: do not play near street while adults can see you. Non violent way, we use force we grab kid and when we lock him in his rum, we say: I am very scared for your life, those cars could kill you and I lock up you in your rum until I calm down and we could talk about what happen. Ore in situation: Mother scream at her 5 year old: if you don't listen me then I do not need you, you are on your own now! Kid cry a laud and running after his angry mother. What would you do in that situation to solve the problem? You give empathy to the mother which is obviously out of balance and can handle kid any more. - I see mum, that parenthood sometimes can be very uneasy? Blah blah usual NVC stuff and when mother healed and in harmony again, only then she is able to empathize with here baby. Now people killing each other for imaginary reasons. So what we do is give them empathy and attachment to life. Seriousness is a symptom of madness and some people get serious till death. When we see violence we do not contribute with more violence, we call to a NVC peace makers. You can kick your car hard, but you know that you need to call a guy working in garage do you? So I ask you again: would you like to be NVC peace maker? We know how to do it, but it takes practice, I need practice and I am looking for people who would like to do so.